- You go to bed wondering if you are the maid or the mother
- You have lost the voice to ask your family for help
- First you feel angry, then guilty that you are angry
- Other women can do it all, what's wrong with me?
- On Saturday, you dread the chore nagging ritual
Have you ever experienced this? You are NOT alone. We created 3 Easy Steps to Help at Home with Dr. Leman for OUR FAMILY.
It WORKED better and more easily than we could have dreamed.
Can't I simply ignore this?
Not really. Here's Why:
- Resentment for your family can only grow the longer you wait
- Your kids aren't getting any younger
- Your schedule and your kids' activities are only getting busier
- Someday your kids will leave and will need to know how to clean their own home
- There is no magic fairy that will change things with the wave of a wand
- Designed to be EASY to launch
- Only 3 steps
- Tested by real families
- One, and only 1, sheet of paper for the plan
We sometimes think that complex is better than the simple. Yet, how many complex systems have ever worked for you and your family?
This is a super-duper, real life tested simple system that can be built and refined in two 30 minute meetings.
I tried a peg board system, chore packs, chore books, stickers, and so on. Every single time they failed. Why? There were too complicated and they put too much of the responsibility on me.Andrea Terpening, mom
Recently, we initiated Dr. Leman's 3 Easy Step plan and I am amazed! We don't have fights about who does what. Each night the house gets picked up. I'm no longer doing the sweeping.
I know it sounds too good to be true, yet the difference is that the responsibility rests on our kids' shoulders. Since they created their expectations, they are able to keep them up. I have had to do some training, and have used some teachable moments. Now I don't feel responsible to make sure all the household chores get done. I can relax or move onto other important tasks. Honestly, the hardest part is giving up control of my expectations and allowing the kids to learn as they go.
Most of all, I love that my kids have taken ownership of their home. This is brilliantly simple, Dr. Leman. Thank you!
I am glad to share because our family relationships on the good ship family were headed straight for an iceberg. I was steering us straight for it with my selfishness and flip flopping between a laissez-faire parenting style and an authoritarian "my way or the highway" way of thinking and we were all suffering. I have begun to put the monkey on my kids' backs as far as responsibility and it IS making a great difference with my dawdler. I am more cognizant of the words I use with my family members and I am really beginning to ENJOY my children as I have never before. I praise God for hearing my heart cry so many months ago when I was at my wits end stressing over things the kids shoulda been stressing over, feeling like I was on the verge of a breakdown because our family was so disjointed and I saw no way out. In His tender mercy, he used you guys and Dr. Leman to help me take baby steps to right our good ship family. I can say honestly that though we haven't arrived, we know the direction we are heading and it is good!J. Davis, mom
Do you need to be a special parent to be successful?
Yes. You have to want to change things. If you have any motivation, you can do this, because it is so easy. One of the major keys to this plan is that the kids do the heavy lifting, not the parents. The kids get ownership. You will be very surprised just how well your kids step up.
Why would I buy this?
- You are tired of nagging
- You feel you are the only one who cares
- You pick up everyone's stuff
- You wonder if you are the maid of the house
- Your kids don't realize that the house gets cleaned
- You want a simple game-plan
If you can receive emails, you've got all the technology to use this product
Getting the training is super easy! After ordering the product, the videos and audio are delivered directly to your email inbox.
The email will supply a link to each part saying, "Click here for . . . (video)." This will immediately take you to that video.
It really is that simple. No logins. No special websites to remember.
Purchase---Email comes to you--Click the Link
Here is my money back guarantee
If you aren’t happy, simply email us and we will refund your money within the first 30 days of purchase. You can try this risk-free for the first 30 days.
Q.How hard is it to listen to or watch?
A.If you can receive an email and click on the link in the email, then you have all the technology you need. We use a service called Easy Download to make it as simple and user-friendly as possible.
Q.How long will it take to set up?
A.We found that two 30 minute sessions with our kids was all we needed. The kids did their part in an hour, but that was because they decided to make a game of it. They were actually laughing as they found out who wanted to do certain jobs.
Q.My husband is not on my team, will it work?
A.Yes, is the short answer. In fact, it will help you, Mom, gain more respect from your kids. You will finally have the tools to implement a no-nagging and no-yelling system. Would it be easier with his support? Yes.
Q.I have tried and failed in the past. Why will this be any different?
A.The genius of Dr. Leman’s plan is that the ownership is put on the kids. They system is written is such a way that the kids can’t squirm out of it. It is visible and simple, so you can remember. Now, you will have to stop nagging and warning and use the tools provided. Like all of Dr. Leman’s teaching, it requires a parent to change first.
Q.Will this game plan clean the windows for me and help me lose 10 pounds?
A.The game plan isn’t magic. It doesn’t come with a fairy that pops out and does the work. Instead the game plan does get your windows cleaned by the kids. In fact, you just might lose 10 pounds, because now you have the time to go on that walk or cook differently. The game plan provides you, the parent, with a plan to change the way your family interacts.
Q.Who has this worked for?
A.Dr. Leman, for over 30 years, did private counseling and saw thousands of families. He successfully used this system with single parents; happy parents; many-kid families; one-kid families; middle class families; struggling families; left-leaning families; right-leaning families; tall families; short families; families of penguins; and others. (Well, not the family of penguins.) But you get the point.
Q.What is the key to make this work?
A.Here is the great part: It isn’t dependent upon your kids. You get to choose if this works or not. All it takes is a parent who wants to change. In fact, it will sound similar to much of the teaching you may already have heard from Dr. Leman.
Q.Let's be honest. Is it really that simple?
A.Here is my honest answer-Yes. Doug & Andrea were shocked how simple it was to set-up and get running. Within two weeks, we had the follow-up meeting to tweak the roles and we had the first major challenge from a kid. Now we all agree on a structure and plan. We did add a step for the first 3 weeks of a weekly review. This helped us remember to enforce the new plan.